Tuesday, May 3, 2011

A Day School Moment.

This morning, my wife and I took our eighth grade son to the airport for his first trip to Israel. It was exciting and moving for us, as we recognized that not only is our son going far away, but he's going to Israel for the first time in his life.

For ten years, our son has studied at a Jewish Day School where forging a strong connection to the State of Israel has been a cornerstone of the school's education. He has learned about Israel, met and studied with Israeli-Americans, and shared Israeli cultural norms.

Today, he left for a 12 day trip for Israel.

As the students prepared to leave, amidst all of the excitement of a long journey, the students and the parents shared a Traveler's Prayer. It was one of those moments in which the potentially ordinary--saying good bye--became closer to the Divine, as we all asked for the Almighty's blessings for our children's safe and meaningful journey to Israel. In doing so, I felt a connection to the Jewish people, to Jewish life, and to something larger than ourselves.

It was what Jewish Day School is about. If what we do at Jewish Day Schools means anything, it is that we must see the spirit of God in everything that we do.

Today we did.


Thursday, April 7, 2011

Seeing the Fruits of a Jewish Day School Education.

The other day, my son and I were looking at his Facebook page and we noticed that he is communicating with Kadima's partners at the ORT Singlovsky school in Tel Aviv. The Israelis send messages in English and Hebrew; my son writes to them largely in Hebrew. He showed me how he switches the keyboard to a Hebrew one, and then he can write message in Hebrew.

Ten years at Kadima and he can have written conversations in Hebrew.

He doesn't know it, yet, but this fluency in Hebrew will, in the future, permit him to explore Judaism in a direct way that I--who is not fluent in Hebrew--cannot. At some point in his life, he will be able to analyze texts, including the Torah, in the original language and not have to worry about another translator's bias.

He is also, of course, creating a direct connection to Israelis in their own language.

This is what going to Jewish day school is all about.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Extraordinary.

I have seen the future of Kadima and it is bright.

Last night, Kadima honored David and Esther Vered for their dedicated commitment to Kadima, and in memory of their son, Adir Moshe Vered z"l. We also celebrated the school's 40th anniversary.

It was quite an evening. Nearly 400 people turned out to the ExchangeLA club, and it was like nothing Kadima had ever seen. The venue was spectacular; a real night club and not a typical hotel banquet room.

There were a variety of speeches, and moving videos, both about the school and about Adir Vered. David and Esther gave moving speeches, and Bill Cohen, our Head of School, spoke about the New Era at Kadima. We saw the school's new promotional video.

Everything about the evening was excellent.

And then something extraordinary happened. It was announced that the school had not met its fundraising target yet, and then, in a way that I have not seen happen at Kadima, the floodgates opened. Several people--and I am not going to list anyone since I don't want to leave anyone out--started making public donations. There donations in every amount; from $180 to $35,000. Several people made donations in the tens of thousands. Not everyone made public donations; many people donated significant amounts but did so privately. This was on top of several significant donations we received this year before the Gala.

It was unbelievable. The night then finished with a fashion show put on by YMI jeans, and then everyone danced into the morning.

The school is still tabulating everything, but suffice it to say that thanks to a lot of generous people, and a lot of hard work, the school did well.

And what did the leadership do this morning? Start the planning for next year's annual event.

Like everything this year--the benchmarking, the increased focused on academics, the transformation of the ECEC--last night was part of the larger sense of renewal at Kadima. Something really special is happening at this place.

Be part of it.

Monday, March 28, 2011

Gala, again.

Having worked on and been part of several annual events over the past few years, I can tell you that this year's Gala--on April 3, 2011--is going to be one that people talk about for years to come. It will be unlike anything Kadima has ever done: great location, great program, and a lot of partying.

Tickets are still available.

You won't want to miss this.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Science Fair, 2011.

This morning I attended the annual Science Fair. My son was participating--as was the entire middle school. Science Fair is one of those things that we do at Kadima, and frankly, it works for some kids better than others. Some kids get engaged and some do not.

For those that do, the experience is terrific. They explore a problem, do some experimentation, and then discover their results. I spoke with several young scientists, and I could tell that some really got into it, and really wanted to determine an answer to a scientific problem.

Most importantly, this year, the school really made sure that the Science Fair was a student project, instead of a project designed and built by parents. I think that the school succeeded well. The kids were engaged (mostly) and they were all very proud about their experiments.

Kol HaKovod to Mr. Randolph, our science teacher, Ms. Combs and Mr. Cohen for an excellent day of learning.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

What Is Religious?

One of the questions we've struggled with over the years at Kadima is "how religious" our school is. On the one hand, we are a Solomon Schechter School, which means that we affiliate with Conservative Judaism. On the other hand, Conservative Judaism has a terribly difficult time defining precisely what it is, so defining our school using a definition that is inherently opaque is, well, less than helpful. Indeed, the nature of Conservative Judaism is so broad that most people can find there way to fit into it, as long they are challenged to define exactly what they believe.

And there is a third hand. While we want to define ourselves, some don't want to define ourselves too narrowly, since then we'll have a school that is well defined, but only a few people attending it. Adding to the struggle is that this involves religious issues, which are notoriously sensitive and sometimes anything but logical.

In fact, the "religious" question is so amorphous and so emotionally charged, and we generally don't discuss it at all. Our Board spent hours talking about it last year as we revised our Mission Statement and our name. There was much concern that the school had a reputation for being "too religious" (whatever that meant, and it meant different things to different people), while others said that we had lost our religious roots (whatever that meant). The feeling was the Hebrew Academy meant we were perceived Orthodox (which we are not, if one of the hallmarks of Orthodoxy is that our services not egalitarian) so we changed our name and sought, at least internally, to reconnect ourselves with the Solomon Schechter Day School Association. We just didn't want advertise it too much, since some people, erroneously, believe that Schechter is a synonym for "too religious." These are some of the same people who belong to Conservative synagogues.

It seems to me, however, that in the San Fernando Valley, when there are a variety of choices in Jewish Day Schools, a school has to have a focus. So what we sought to do was to take the focus upon study and academics inherent in traditional Conservative Judaism (even if this focus has become blurred in recent years) and apply it to the educational context. We sought to create a Judaic program that is rigorously academic and transcends merely teaching of values. Yes, we'll teach values, but we'll also explore the texts and the commentators, so our graduates will have a better understanding of Judaism so they can, ultimately, be committed to it as a way of life.

That's the theory, and we're still working on the application of it. It's hard, because our families come from so many different religious points: we have people who will only go to Orthodox shuls and cringe every time they see a woman wearing a Kippah; we have people who never go to synagogue and their only connection to Jewish life is our school; we have people who keep Kosher and people who do not; we have regular synagogue attendees and people who never go to synagogue at all. We have kids who wear tzitzit to school and kids who have to be reminded to put their kippah in Judaic Studies.

So it's a struggle. But it is a good one.


Friday, March 18, 2011

Toward The Future.

It's been a busy month for me professionally and that has meant not to many blog posts. Well, none, actually, in a month. I've also been busy with Kadima, as the Gala Committee works very hard to promote what is going to be one of the best, if not the best, annual event in Kadima's history. We're honoring David and Esther Vered, both of whom have been stalwart and strong supporters of our school over many years. Because David is in the fashion industry, we're putting a professional fashion show, and it should be a spectacular evening. You can still come. Check out our website to get your tickets.

We also had big news that the Nominating Committee has selected the next President for Kadima. I am absolutely thrilled that Suzy Bookbinder will be taking over for me when my term ends at the end of June. Suzy is an excellent leader and has precisely the skills, talent and community involvement that the school needs. She's a professional Development Director in her day job, serves as PEJE coach, and knows more about Boards, non-profits and fundraising than most everyone else.

Suzy, who currently serves on our Board of Trustees, is precisely the right person in the right place and the right time for Kadima. Kadima is lucky that she is willing to give the time and effort to serve the school and set its course for the future.

With the next President in place, it gives me a moment to begin thinking about the past two years in this job. I hope to have time to write about what being President meant, what I learned, and what I hope I accomplished, and what the school still needs to do. I'll still be on the Executive Board as Immediate Past President, and I will still do my best for the school, but the reins will be firmly in Suzy's capable hands.

Purim Sameach.